The Confident Mom Community

Stop googling at midnight.

For working moms who lead all day — and want that same clarity at home.

Start thinking like the capable decision-maker you already are.
For working moms who make confident calls all day at work—
but want the same clarity and calm for their child's health.

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Join other working moms learning how to think through symptoms with confidence—on their schedule, not someone else’s.

You're not missing information.

You’re missing a framework.Here’s a familiar moment.You’re at work.
Your phone rings.
Daycare. Fever.You don’t panic — but you pause.
Because you’re sorting opinions...not facts.
Some dramatic. Some conflicting. Most unhelpful.Your pediatrician’s office is booked.
The internet says everything and nothing at the same time.
And the advice to “trust your gut” doesn’t help when your gut just wants context.So you make a decision.
You adjust your day.
You get your child seen.And you’re told it’s a virus. Supportive care.You didn’t do anything wrong.
And you’re not behind.The system just...doesn’t teach parents how to think through these moments with confidence.That’s the gap the Confident Mom Community is built to fill — teaching you how to think through pediatric health questions with calm and confidence that actually sticks.

What if you knew how to think
through symptoms?

Not by memorizing medical facts.
Not by guessing.
And definitely not by relying on opinions from strangers online.Here's what actually calms moms down:Not "This is normal."But "Here's what matters most - and here's what would change my concern."Inside the Confident Mom Community, I teach parents the same decision-making frameworks pediatric providers use every day— translated into plain language, for real life.This is education designed to help you:

Observe symptoms clearly without spiraling
Know what matters most(and what's just noise)
Recognize what would change the plan
Stay calm when something new comes up
Know when to watch, when to call, and when to seek care

These frameworks aren't one-time tips.
They're patterns you use repeatedly — so confidence builds with experience.You’re learning alongside other parents who value clarity, context, and thoughtful discussion — not panic or guesswork.

What's inside

01

Monthly Expert Q&AsYou learn how I think—not just what to think. The frameworks stick because you see them applied to real situations.

02

Clear Reference GuidesNot stuff you scroll through once. Tools you actually return to when clarity matters.

03

Symptom School™Mini modules that strengthen your internal decision framework. Pattern recognition—not memorization.

04

A Calm Learning CommunityNot chaos. Not panic. A space where confidence builds over time.

HOW THIS ACTUALLY WORKSYou're Learning a Pattern, Not Memorizing FactsWhen a mom asks about fever... I don't just say "watch hydration."
I explain why hydration tells us more than the fever number.
I teach what would change my concern.Next time her kid has a fever?
She remembers the pattern.
That's confidence that compounds.Every answer I give follows the same structure:1. What this likely is - context without diagnosing
2. What matters most right now - where to focus
3. What's normal to watch - expected patterns
4. What would escalate care - red flags
5. Permission - to wait, or to go inYou're not learning symptoms.
You're learning how to prioritize like a provider.

This community is for you if…

You make decisions every day at work and want the same confidence at home
You value frameworks over fan opinions
You want expert perspective, not advice that feels like guesswork
You want clarity that sticks - not momentary reassurance
You value learning alongside other thoughtful parents who approach health decisions with perspective.

This is not for you if…

You want someone to tell you exactly what to do for your specific child
You’re looking for personalized answers rather than learning how to think through situations
You’re looking for urgent, one-on-one answers rather than a structured, shared learning environment

This community offers general pediatric education and does not provide medical advice or individualized care.

Hi. I’m Mary.

Pediatric PA. Mom of three.
And the person who wants you to leave feeling calmer—not scared.I’ve spent over a decade caring for kids in clinic.
And I’ve spent even longer being a mom who has worried, Googled, and questioned herself.Here’s what I know for sure:Medical confidence isn’t something you’re born with. It’s a skill you can learn.This community is designed with busy professionals, clinicians, and decision-makers in mind — especially those who want the same calm clarity at home that they cultivate at work.Inside The Confident Mom Community, I don’t diagnose or treat.
I teach parents how to think — so they can make informed decisions and trust themselves more.You'll learn how to:

Observe symptoms clearly
Understand what’s normal vs concerning
Know what matters most—and what would change the plan
Know when to wait—and when to call

No diagnoses.
No panic.
Just clear, evidence-based education.Because you deserve to feel capable—not constantly unsure.

THE CONFIDENT MOM COMMUNITY
$67/month or $697/year

A structured learning environment where confidence is built through repetition, pattern recognition, and shared experience.

What's Inside:

Welcome + Start Here — Clear onboarding so you know where to begin
A Calm Learning Community — Ask questions and get educational guidance
Tiny Wins & Real Moments— Community connection with other thoughtful moms
Symptom School™ — Mini modules that strengthen your decision framework
Monthly Expert Q&As — Live Q&A where you learn how I think through real scenarios
Clear Reference Guides — Reference tools you actually return to

This is not:

A crisis line
One-on-one medical advice
Constant access or reassurance on demand

This is:

Structured education designed to build confidence over time
A calm learning space with other capable moms
Frameworks that help you think clearly - not panic

Best if for working moms who value expert perspective, clear boundaries, and steady guidance over panic-based reassurance.

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Optional Intensives

These short-term intensives are offered periodically and are designed for parents who want more focused perspective as they strengthen how they think through their child’s health.Because the experience is discussion-based and framework-focused, applications help me form small groups of parents at similar stages who'll benefit from learning together.The Confident Mom Community remains the foundation.
Intensives add focused depth during specific seasons.

The Confident Group Intensive
Small-Group

A 3-month, small-group intensive designed to accelerate your framework mastery with guided, discussion-based learning alongside other moms.

Small, compatible groups
Framework-based discussion
Pattern recognition across scenarios
3 month cohort
Includes full Confident Mom Community access during the 3-month intensive.

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The Private Clinical Intensive
One on One

A private 1:1, 3-month intensive for moms who want individualized guidance to accelerate confident decision-making.

Decision-making frameworks
Pattern recognition
Scenario walkthroughs
Strengthening independent confidence
Includes full Confident Mom Community access during the 3-month intensive.

Apply for Private Intensive

What changes when you're inside

Before

I react to symptoms without a clear framework and second-guess my decisions afterward.

After

I recognize patterns, trust my reasoning, and know what would change the plan.

You don’t become a medical professional.You become a confident, capable mom who knows how to think things through calmly.

Common questions

Is this medical advice?
No.The Confident Mom Community provides general pediatric education, not medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. I teach you how to think through symptoms and understand what’s going on — not what to do for your specific child.For medical concerns, always consult your child’s healthcare provider. Call 911 for emergencies.Will you answer questions about my child?
I teach principles, not case-specific diagnoses.You learn frameworks so your reasoning improves over time.For example, if you ask about fevers, I’ll explain how fevers work, what’s normal, and what’s concerning — but I won’t diagnose or give instructions for your specific child. That’s your pediatrician’s role.What ages is this for?
Most of the content focuses on infants through early childhood (roughly ages 0–8), since that’s when parents tend to have the most questions and sick-day stress.That said, the frameworks I teach apply to older kids too.What if I can’t attend live Q&As?
That’s completely fine.Community members have permanent access to all recordings.You can watch on your own schedule — whenever it fits into real life.How is this different from Googling or mom groups?
Google gives you a lot of information with very little context — which often leads to worst-case spirals.Mom groups usually share personal experiences, which can be helpful, but aren’t always grounded in evidence.Inside the Confident Mom Community, I teach you how pediatric providers think — so you understand what matters, what doesn’t, and why.What is the community actually like?
This isn’t a chaotic mom group or a place for worst-case spirals.The Confident Mom Community is a calm, moderated space where moms are learning how to think through symptoms together.Some moms ask questions. Some read and learn quietly. Some pop in when something comes up. There’s no pressure to post or share more than you’re comfortable with.Over time, many moms find that learning alongside the same people — seeing familiar names, sharing similar questions, and navigating the same stages — naturally creates connection. Some moms form real friendships here. Others simply appreciate knowing they’re not the only one asking these questions.
Both are completely okay.The goal of the community is simple: clarity, perspective, and reassurance — not noise.Do I have to stay in the community long-term?
No. You’re free to stay as long as it’s helpful.Some moms join for a few months to build confidence. Others stay longer because they value the ongoing education and community. You can upgrade, downgrade, or cancel at any time.What if my child is rarely sick?
That’s actually a great time to learn.This community isn’t just about reacting to illness — it’s about building confidence before you need it, so when something does come up, you’re not starting from scratch.Is this only for working moms?
The community is designed with working moms in mind — busy schedules, limited time, and a lot of mental load.That said, you don’t have to fit a specific definition of “working mom” to belong here. If you’re juggling multiple roles and want clear, flexible education that fits real life, you’ll feel right at home.

Why learn from a Pediatric PA?

A Physician Assistant (PA) is a master's-level, licensed medical professional trained to evaluate symptoms, make diagnoses, and treat patients as part of a healthcare team. While the title includes the word “assistant,” PAs are not medical assistants — we’re trained clinicians who care for patients directly.As a pediatric PA, my job has always been to slow things down, look at the whole picture, and decide what actually matters — not just react to one symptom.I’m also a mom of three. And I’ve learned firsthand that even with the same parent, the same home, and the same experience, kids can be completely different. What worked beautifully for one didn’t always work for another — and that’s normal.That perspective shapes how I teach inside this community.I’m not providing medical advice or treating individual children here. Instead, I’m teaching you the clinical thinking I’ve used for years — translated into plain language — so you can better understand what you’re seeing, adapt to your child, and feel more confident navigating decisions.There’s rarely one “right” answer.
Confidence comes from understanding how to think things through — not from doing things perfectly.

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If you want a calm place to start, grab my free Symptom Decoder — quick, practical guidance to help you think through common childhood symptoms like fever, rashes, and when to call the doctor.No spam. Just clear education you can use right away.

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Medical Disclaimer:
The Confident Mom Community provides general educational information only and does not offer medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your child’s healthcare provider for medical concerns. Call 911 for emergencies.